Game of Thrones star Rose Leslie explained that part of learning to deal with her husband Kit Harington‘s alcohol addiction taught that it’s something he has to figure out on his own.
The actress opened up for the first time about her partner’s journey towards sobriety in a new cover story Harper’s Bazaar UK, and told the magazine that “For Kit, who is an addict, it is very important for him to recognize himself as such.” She added: “The AA community has given him a loving space to feel heard, to make sure he is not alone. But if it were not for rehabilitation, he would be in a completely different headspace right now.”
Leslie said they are both “doing well” and Harrington is “now several years into her sobriety” after first seeking treatment back in May 2019 by checking in at the Private-Swiss Wellness Retreat in Connecticut. She continued: “I’ve learned a lot about addiction, and it’s something Kit will forever be aware of, but it’s up to him whether he chooses to drink again. No amount of nanny work will be able to stop him from doing so. , he decides … I choose not to put that pressure on myself. The responsibility for his behavior lies with him. It is not me who has to protect him from it. “
Right now, the couple is focused on building their lives together, and have recently bought another home in Suffolk, where they plan to move in after Harington finishes his performances of Henrik V at Donmar Warehouse in London. “We have to create a home, try to make friends. We just have to use our son!” Leslie joked, referring to their 14-month-old boy. “In London, we shoot at all cylinders, and when we get in the country, we can just turn it all off.”
Harington has also previously spoken honestly about his struggles with alcohol in an interview in August 2021 with Sunday Timesand told the business that he “went through some pretty awful things” after the finale in Game of Thrones. “You come to a place where you feel like you’re a bad person, you feel like you’re a shameful person. And you feel like there’s no way out, it’s just who you are. And that getting sober is the process of saying, ‘No, I can change’, “he explained.” One of my favorite things I learned recently is that the phrase ‘a leopard does not change its spots’ is completely false: that a leopard actually changes its spots. I think that’s just the most beautiful thing. It really helped. It was something I clung to; the idea that I could make this huge fundamental change in who I was and how I went about my life. ”
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