Alex Scott breaks down in tears and tells Steven Bartlett how her abusive dad wouldn’t let her hug mum after hitting

ALEX Scott broke down in tears as she recalled to Steve Bartlett how her abusive father wouldn’t let her hug her mother after a beating.

The former Arsenal and England star, 37, opened up about her childhood when she spoke to the Dragon’s Den star ahead of the release of her brand new memoir, How (Not) to Be Strong.

Alex Scott broke down in tears as she recalled parts of her childhood to Steve Bartlett


Alex Scott broke down in tears as she recalled parts of her childhood to Steve BartlettCredit: YouTube
The soccer star said there was a time her father wouldn't let her hug her mother after he hit her


The soccer star said there was a time her father wouldn’t let her hug her mother after he hit herCredit: YouTube

Alex’s voice was strained and she fought back tears as she talked about how her father would be abusive to her mother.

She then recalled the “hardest night”.

Alex told Steve in a video posted on his YouTube channel: “I’m in a room listening to everything and just hoping she’s alive.

“I heard everything, I heard her trying to run.

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“But she doesn’t know what me and my brother are doing or feeling.

“That was the hardest night that one.”

She says the house was just quiet the next morning and she wasn’t even allowed to talk to, let alone hug, her mother.

Alex said: “As a 5-6 year old I just want to hug my mum. But we can’t. I wasn’t allowed to show love.

“I suppose that’s why a word like control is easy to say—until you break it down and understand that it’s control.

“I’m not even allowed to show love or hug or really talk.”

Steve asked why she couldn’t hug her mom, and Alex said her dad said she couldn’t—and there would be consequences.

It was the home life that drove Alex to football, as she says it was a “safe space”.

When Steve asked what the consequence would be, she said: “What my mum would go through, the terror, the helplessness that you can’t do anything, just live in fear.

“You live in fear every single moment.

“That’s why the football cage becomes your escape, for me.”

I’m not even allowed to show love, hug or really talk.

Alex Scott

Alex tells all in her book, but admitted it was one of the first times she had really opened up about her life.

She told Steve: “It’s hard for me to talk about because I guess I’ve been hiding it all this time.”

Alex added: “But because of everything I’ve been through, I’m the person I am now.

“You have to take the good bits and the bad bits and that’s what makes me who I am.”

Alex has opened up about many unknown parts of her life this week, including when she was racially abused and trolled online.

She also fought back tears on The One Show as she recalled hitting rock bottom during a drinking bout.

Alex also opened up about her love life and how she had been in a secret relationship with fellow Lioness star Kelly Smith – and a disastrous date she went on with Coronation Street’s Sam Robertson.

How you can get help

Women’s Aid has this advice for victims and their families:

  • Always keep your phone nearby.
  • Get in touch with charities for help, including the Women’s Aid live chat helpline and services such as SupportLine.
  • Call 999 if you are in danger.
  • Familiarize yourself with the Silent Solution, report abuse without talking on the phone and call “55” instead.
  • Always have some cash on you, including change for a pay phone or bus fare.
  • If you suspect that your partner is about to attack you, try to go to a lower-risk area of ​​the house – for example, where there is a way out and access to a phone.
  • Avoid the kitchen and garage where there are likely to be knives or other weapons. Avoid spaces where you can be trapped, such as the bathroom, or where you can be locked into a closet or other small space.

If you are a victim of domestic abuse, the SupportLine is open Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 6pm to 8pm on 01708 765200. The charity’s email support is open weekdays and weekends during the crisis –

Women’s Aid offers a live chat service – available weekdays 8am-6pm and weekends 10am-6pm.

You can also call the free 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.

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